Episode 22 - Fearless Mentoring: Empowering Others Without Imposing Fear with NaKeya Harris

In this episode of Realign Your Life Podcast, host Vivian Smith Richardson dives into the importance of mentorship and the impact it can have on one's spiritual life. Joined by guest Professor NaKeya Harris, they discuss the misconceptions surrounding mentoring and highlight its significance in fostering authentic relationships. 

Mentoring is likened to discipleship, where mentors come alongside mentees to help them navigate life. The episode explores various examples of mentoring from both the Old and New Testaments, demonstrating the value of attachment and commitment to a mentor. Vivian also shares personal experiences of being mentored and how it has positively influenced her own growth. Additionally, she touches on the importance of rest, prayer, and seeking God's guidance through practices such as Sabbath study.

Transitioning from parenting to mentoring is a topic that Vivian delves into. She highlights the importance of listening and guiding without chastisement, understanding that the Holy Spirit plays a significant role in understanding and responding to her children's needs. Vivian shares her perspective on not having all the solutions and allowing God to work in the lives of her children.

Join Vivian and Professor NaKeya Harris in this thought-provoking episode as they shed light on the significance of mentoring, authentic relationships, and pursuing a deeper connection with God. Stay tuned for more valuable content from the "Realign Your Life" podcast!

 

Key Moments: 

[00:05:52] Mentoring is a reciprocal, authentic, and positive relationship.

[00:11:12] Following God: Learning, Resolute, and Committed.

[00:16:01] Mentors empower, impart wisdom, and provide love.

[00:18:34] All is Spirit, perfect timing, divine connection.

[00:21:35] Mentoring in parenting and learning through listening.

[00:27:04] Teach them their interests in mentorship.

[00:28:42] Careful not to impose fear on others.

[00:33:20] "Taking a day to reset and pray."

[00:35:20] Having community and mentorship is essential. Sabbath and fasting practices bring balance and clarity. Praying and studying the word of God.

[00:39:29] Be authentic, have organic conversations, and listen.

 

About the Guest : 

NaKeya Harris is a passionate advocate for mentoring and believes in its transformative power. She recognizes that mentoring has sometimes been seen as an intimidating commitment, but she sees it as a fluid and mutually beneficial relationship. NaKeya believes that mentoring, like the Bible, is a double-edged sword that yields fruit for both the mentor and the mentee. She equates mentoring with discipleship, emphasizing the importance of walking alongside someone and embracing their authentic self. NaKeya believes that authenticity is vital in today's society and that mentors and mentees are hungry for personal growth. She sees mentoring as a lifelong journey of learning and growth, essential for one's spiritual development. Ultimately, NaKeya views mentoring as a way to build deep friendships, foster community, and support one another in the journey of life.

 

How to connect  NaKeya Harris:

Email - nakeyaharris@outlook.com

 

About Vivian -

Vivian’s lifetime desire has been to impact the lives of both women and men. As a critical thought leader and strategic thinker, her passion is to help women and men develop their best quality and place in life. Knowing that regardless of what season of life they are in – they are valued. 

 As a community builder and masterful networker, she values and welcomes every person she encounters. Through her interactions with various cultures and backgrounds, the realization that there needed to be a platform for them to express and share their concerns, shame, disappointments, desires, and experiences in a safe, non-threatening environment without judgment led her to establish Vivian Richardson Resources and the non-profit God’s Kind of Woman, where women are empowered to know they are Powerful – Prepared – and –Purposeful!